Does head rule the heart or is it the other way round?
Common theory would seem to dictate that there are many things in life that are stressful. Whether it’s a bereavement, a divorce or a break up or even moving house or job, it’s easy for things to get on top of us all. Sounds cliche but we’re all human so why wouldn’t these things worry us?
Different things matter to different people though.
There are a couple close to me who are worried if they can afford that new house that they have their heart set on.
There are other friends who have confided that maybe that they don’t really like their job any more but feel scared to move on. They seem worried that maybe the grass isn’t greener somewhere else?
I have one friend who split with his long term girlfriend recently because he felt that they wanted different things from life.
On the flip side, my best friend is married to his best friend and together, him and his wife have two of the most beautiful little girls that you could ever wish for. They are living their dream and it’s difficult not be be slightly envious of that.
Changing job, moving house or ending or starting a relationship will likely come to us all at some point.
It messes with us, right? Things have changed for me recently and decisions and changes have had to be made. Initially I thought that my head ruled my heart with those choices.
I’m not so sure.